I recently read an old book titled Bringing Out the Best in People by Alan Loy McGinnis and it made me think a lot about what motivated me to want to spend a lifetime digging into analysis and research on a topic so obscure as chess. Being that I am a student and practitioner of business management, I was cruising along enjoying a book on how to better motivate people around me and my eyes were immediately halted from coasting mode when I saw the word chess. The paragraph that engulfed my attention is the following:
“Watch to see where a child’s innate skills or talents lie… then gently lead or coax him or her into those areas. It may be difficult for a father who was a crack athlete to understand a son who would rather play chess than football. But chess, not football, is what such a boy needs if confidence is to grow in him. If he does one thing well he will come to believe that he can do other things well.”
The last sentence reminded me that the main motivating factor avalanching into the force that drives my subsistence is the belief that I can accomplish goals that I set for myself. If you find that you can do something and that the result is better than satisfactory, you may be inclined to give your best effort for other tasks. When I found that one of my favorite things in the world is to play a game of chess well, I found that it was also possible to finish high school and move on to higher education with decent grades. Goal after goal has been set and attained and the inspiration to live life better was found in a complicated game designed to exercise the mind.
Another very interesting section of the book discusses the art of failure. Recently I examined this same issue in another book titled What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 by Tina Seelig. I had never considered the power that failure can have on a person or questioned what drives someone to seek more punishment with another failure before smashing through the barricades on the path to success until these two books had maneuvered their way into my library. Some people get a taste of failure and choose paths in life to avoid the possibility of future failures as much as possible. On the other hand, some of the most successful people have actively sought the paths that are difficult, failed to reach their goal, learned from their mistakes and eventually trudged onward to the spotlight of victory and triumph. It all depends on attitude and the ability to cope with failure. This short video on success through failure gives some examples of success in the bay area by startups and internet companies.
The truth is that failures make us much stronger in so many ways. It can help us sharpen a skill, teach us the importance of determination or make us reminiscent of some needed humility. The best advice that chess coaches give on a regular basis is to analyze ones games to clear up any incorrect thinking or blunders to help refrain from future failures and chess players experience failure on a constant basis! In business, life or chess, will you flee from past and possible failure or will you show good will for the learning process by learning from your mistakes with the intent to accumulate and realize more failures? One of my favorite quotes comes from Vinnie in the movie Searching for Bobby Fischer “He didn't teach you how to win, he taught you how not to lose. That's nothing to be proud of. You're playing not to lose, Josh. You've got to risk losing. You've got to risk everything. You've got to go to the edge of defeat. That's where you want to be, boy - on the edge of defeat.”
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